The Journey of Life

Life is a journey...and it wasn't until I had children that it really became interesting! These are the most meaningful, adventurous , and active years I've known, and I wouldn't trade them for anything. The Munchkins and Me is a place to share with you ideas and inspirations I've found to strengthen relationships with your children, as well as commemorate my journey and spread a little fun along the way! Welcome...and enjoy your stay!

Monday, March 30, 2009

ChaCha Update

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It's been awhile since I started working part-time online as a ChaCha Guide. ChaCha has gone through a lot of changes since I last told you about this unique and very flexible job a few months ago!

ChaCha Guides (we do quick internet searches to find answers to questions that people text in to the company, send the answer to ChaCha, and ChaCha texts the answer back to the person inquiring) can now sign up for certain subjects that they know the most about. So, for example, I don't know much about professional sports, but I know lots about cooking, so I didn't sign up for sports-related questions, but I did sign up for cooking questions. There are times, when ChaCha is really busy, that I receive random questions of any subject, and so I do get a sports question or two from time to time. So, I've really learned all kinds of new things by doing searches! The payscale of ChaCha has also changed, so that the amount we get paid is based on the topic or category of the individual question.

I haven't really spent much time working for ChaCha lately, but that's the nice thing about it, I work only as little or much as I want, and exactly when I want-day or night. If you are interested in checking into working for ChaCha, you can go to their website (www.chacha.com), but I do recommend your getting in touch with me to find out more about passing the tests. It's not that they are that difficult, but it's good to know ahead of time what they will be like because you only get one chance to pass them, and the tests are timed! I'd be happy to help you out.

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Wednesday, February 25, 2009

The Love of a Mother-in-Law

I am so blessed to have a wonderful mother-in-law. I realize there are not a whole lot of people who can say that! My mother-in-law just spent the last two weeks with us, and we enjoyed every minute of it. I've thought a lot about my relationship with my husband's mother, and I have learned much about the type of mother-in-law I'd like to be one day to my future daughters and sons-in-law.

Over the years that I've been married, my mother-in-law has kept a polite distance when it comes to offering too much advice in regards to the life my husband and I lead together. In the rare times that she has had something to say, it has always been done with meekness and an attitude that does not make us defensive. It is very easy, because of how she has respected our privacy, to actually share with her and seek her opinion about issues that come up from time to time.

My mother-in-law has treated me like a queen! She has taught me how to make someone feel special-whether it is in buying me a new outfit I would not buy for myself, or in seeing a need I have and not just buying the basics, but buying the best, or more than I really needed. My mother-in-law is not wealthy when it comes to money, but she so easily gives away to others what she could have easily spent on herself for her own needs.

Much more could be said, but the last thing I'll mention is that my mother-in-law respects how my husband and I choose to raise our children. I know of so many people whose in-laws counter them with each and every decision they make in regards to the grandchildren. I know that when I leave my children with my mother-in-law, that she will respect our wishes with how they are cared for.

In the years I've known my mother-in-law, I have learned from her to be a more giving person. I appreciate the relationship I have with her, and make sure to tell her so in an occasional card, letter, or when we're speaking in person. I pray that I can be as sweet of a mother-in-law to my own son and daughter's spouses as my mother-in-law is to me. I certainly have a great example to follow!

Copyright 2009 The Munchkins and Me

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Saturday, January 17, 2009

Eat Your Vegetables! Encouraging Children to Eat Salad

Fresh vegetables are so important in our diets for excellent health, and, while parents may enjoy digging in to a big salad, the munchkins are not always as enthusiastic to chew through all that roughage! It is possible, though, to teach children at a young age to eat their vegetables, and yes, even salad!

I have found a few things that have been helpful in encouraging my munchkins to be salad eaters. The biggest help has been simply chopping up the vegetables in to very small pieces. While dining at Outback Steakhouse awhile ago, I ordered their Chopped Salad. It was prepared differently than most restaurant salads which have big pieces of lettuce, a wedge of tomato and other largely cut vegetables. Instead, the lettuce and all other ingredients were cut into very small pieces, hence, the name of the salad. I thought this was a great idea to apply to not only my children's salads, but to my own, as chopping the vegetables into small pieces cuts way down on the time it takes to chew all those larger pieces- much of the work has been done for you! I've noticed, as well, that the quantity of salad we are able to consume has become much more--there's a lot less "fluff" on the plate, and a more dense serving of vegetables. The more vegetables the better, right?!

You may be thinking that it would take a lot of time to chop all those vegetebles. If you have a decent chef's knife and a cutting board, this really takes very little time--just watch those fingers while you chop quickly like the pros! One step further, having your children help to prepare the salad often makes them more enthusiastic about eating it- it's usually exciting to try something you've cooked yourself. Even a mature 2 or 3 year old can stand on a stepping stool at the sink and wash the lettuce. They'll love playing in the water while getting the lettuce clean. Then, have your munchkin tear the lettuce into pieces (we're not looking for perfection here, just a little help!), and you can finish it off by chopping it into the small pieces that I described above. Children who are a bit older can learn to peel the cucumbers or other vegetables, and as they mature can help you to cut them up.

Having a yummy salad dressing and other tasty salad editions like honey toasted sliced almonds (toaste the nuts with a little honey in a skillet, but beware, they burn easily!) can certainly help make the flavor of a salad more appealing. Ranch dressing seems to be very popular with munchkins. Storebought dressings are not the healthiest of things to consume, being full of chemicals and preservatives, so it's best to have homemade. But, in a pinch, I'd still go for the dressing in limited quantities to encourage little eaters to eat their vegetables. Here's a great Ranch salad dressing recipe you might like to try:

RANCH DRESSING

1 cup mayonnaise

1/2 cup sour cream

1/2 teaspoon dried chives

1/2 teaspoon dried parsley

1/4 teaspoon dried dill

1/2 teaspoon garlic powder

1/2 teaspoon onion powder

1/8 teaspoon salt

1/8 teaspoon black pepper

Whisk all ingredients together in a large bowl. Refrigerate, covered, for at least 30 minutes before serving.

Another idea to help your munchkins eat their salads is to serve the salad first, and not move on to the rest of the meal until the salad is eaten. (For some of you when starting out, this may mean that your munchkins will only get a single tiny piece of lettuce or other vegetable on their salad plate, and gradually increasing the amount that needs to be eatern, before moving on to any quantity of salad!)

Why not make a simple salad a daily routine that you and your munchkins prepare together? It only takes a few minutes to make, and you will reap the benefits of a serving of great nutrition every day, and have children who have the healthy habit of eating their vegetables!

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